As a parent, you do everything you can to protect your children — but have you considered who would look after them if you couldn’t?
It’s not something anyone likes to think about, but naming guardians in your will is one of the most caring decisions you can make.
At Coastal Legacy, we help parents across Hampshire, Fareham, Gosport, and Portsmouth write wills that safeguard their children’s future, whatever happens.
Here’s what you need to know about choosing the right guardians.
What Is a Guardian in a Will?
A guardian is the person (or people) you choose to care for your children if both parents die before they turn 18.
Without a legally appointed guardian, the courts decide who takes on this role — which might not align with your wishes.
By naming guardians in your will, you ensure your children are looked after by people you trust and who share your values.
Why Appointing a Guardian Is So Important
If you don’t appoint a guardian:
- Your children’s care could be decided by the courts.
- Family members might disagree about who should step in.
- Your children could face unnecessary stress and uncertainty during a difficult time.
A clear will prevents confusion and gives your loved ones guidance and reassurance.
How to Choose the Right Guardians
This is a deeply personal choice, but here are some key things to consider:
1. Shared Values and Parenting Style
Choose someone who aligns with your approach to parenting, discipline, and education.
2. Stability and Commitment
Think about whether they have the time, health, and stability to care for your children long-term.
3. Location and Lifestyle
Would your children need to move school or home? Consider how this might affect them.
4. Relationship with Your Children
Ideally, choose someone your children already know and trust.
5. Age and Financial Circumstances
Ensure they’re mature enough for the role and in a good position to manage the responsibility.
You can name more than one guardian — for example, a couple — or appoint backup guardians in case your first choice can’t act.
Can Guardians Also Be Executors or Trustees?
Yes — but it’s often wise to appoint separate people to share the responsibility.
For example, you might choose a guardian to care for your children and a trustee (such as a family friend or professional) to manage their inheritance.
This creates balance and helps avoid potential conflicts of interest.
Financial Support for Guardians
Raising children can be expensive. You can leave instructions in your will to ensure funds are available for:
- Housing
- Education
- Everyday expenses
Our team at Coastal Legacy can help you structure your will to provide both financial and emotional security for your children’s guardians.
How to Appoint Guardians in Your Will
You can name your chosen guardians directly in your will. It’s best to discuss it with them first, so they understand and agree to the responsibility.
We’ll ensure the legal wording is clear and valid under UK law.
A Gift of Love and Security
Choosing guardians is never easy — but it’s one of the most meaningful acts of love a parent can make.
It brings peace of mind, knowing your children will be cared for by people who understand and cherish them.
At Coastal Legacy, we make the process simple, supportive, and completely confidential.
👉 Contact Coastal Legacy today to create a will that protects your children’s future.